So I don't know if I mentioned it in my last blog because I planned on posting some of my myspace blogs, but I'll just re-write or summarize some of them now.
My 27 year old brother in law was diagonised with cancer a few weeks ago and my sister is expecting her 2nd baby any day now. They already have a 2 1/2 year old, so when you add all these things together things tend to get a bit hectic.
My niece, their 2 1/2 year old, also the love of my life, ended up getting sick last week well it got bad the day her dad started chemo and so my sister (8 1/2 months along) sort of had a mini break down. So they think they have it controlled with my niece when my parents end up with it (they watch her every day) and then my sister comes down with it. The goal now is to get everyone well while not letting my brother in law catch it. So I tried to help as much as I could, only to find out Julia (my niece) still has it. It's been almost a week and 1/2 and she can't knock it. So the moral when it rains it pours!
So my sister is trying to care for a sick husband, a sick child, and make sure she stays well and not stressed for the baby. I try and help, but my niece decided yesterday that she doesn't want me around, because when i come around mommy and daddy get downtime which means time away from her and it's just too many changes for a 2 1/2 year old to go thru.
On a positive note Danny (my brother in law) has a hge supportative family, which has both positives and negatives and our family isn't small and again that's both positive and negative. But we're all willing to help and get them thru this. It's just a matter of not getting in the way and not stepping on toes.
We have put things in God's hands and we know he will give us the strength we need, it's just a matter of having a little patients :)
